Systemic Work
Making peace with where you come from.
Learn to make the family system visible through constellations, and to give what is stuck in the line its own place again. Six online modules in English with a live Q&A every two weeks, followed by a five-day practice week in Malaga, Spain. You finish with a theory and practical exam, and leave as a certified systemic work practitioner.
“Systemic work changed my life.”
Valérie carried a lot around family patterns. They triggered her and confronted her, again and again. She always wanted to live in harmony with her family, but did not know how. Until she found systemic work.
Her bond with her parents improved, and so did her bond with her sisters and her brother. She moved from a masculine energy into a feminine one, and brought her life much more into balance.
“It is not something to use quickly. It keeps working for months.”
She followed several systemic trainings, which kept her actively in this work for a full year. It brought her to her knees. Because she felt how intense it is, Valérie is creating the Buenavida® app, as follow-up and support for the months after. The app launches before the courses begin.
Gentle in the moment. Deep for months.
In a constellation you face your deepest patterns too. In the moment it can feel less intense than breathwork, but it keeps working for months afterwards, and that asks for follow-up.
Seeing what is there
Making the family system visible in the room, with representatives or mats, and looking at it without judgement.
Giving everyone their place
Everyone has the right to belong. When belonging and order are restored, what is stuck in the line can move again.
Letting love flow again
Behind almost every entanglement there is love. You learn to see it, and to let it flow in the right direction again.
Everything you need to hold this work.
Six modules, one clear line: see, understand, recognise, act and be. You work with your own family system first, and then learn to facilitate it for others.
- 01
The system and the family
What a system is, why it always seeks balance, and the laws and order of a family. You set up your first family on mats.
- 02
The three consciences
Why people carry what is not theirs, why exclusion repeats itself, and how to work without blame or judgement.
- 03
Nine common dynamics
The dynamics you meet in constellation after constellation, how to read them in posture, place and direction, and the movement each one needs.
- 04
Significant events
Seventeen events that keep working through the generations, such as war, loss and exclusion. Whom you set up, and where you begin.
- 05
Sentences and rituals
Ordering and detaching sentences that ring true for the person saying them, and five rituals to hold and close a constellation.
- 06
The facilitator
Pride and humility, in the family system and in yourself. Facilitating a full constellation with a seven-step protocol.
- 07
Practising together
A small practice group of three or four fellow students. You meet online between the live Q&As and take turns as facilitator, client, representative and observer.
- 08
Professional foundation
Consent, confidentiality, the pitfalls of the facilitator, and knowing when a theme belongs with a doctor or psychologist instead.
Online first, then in the room.
The online part is complete before you arrive in Malaga. There you put everything into practice, together, for five days.
Online
Six modules with a course book, at your own pace. Every two weeks a live Q&A on Tuesday evening, 7 pm Central European Time, recorded so you can always watch it back. You send your questions in advance.
Practice group
You practise online with three or four fellow students, with a guide for every module. This is how you learn to trust what you see yourself.
Practice week
Five days in Malaga, Spain, Monday to Friday. You facilitate constellations yourself, under supervision, until the protocol is in your body.
Certification
A theory exam online, mostly case studies, and a practical exam you submit as a video. When you pass, you receive your certificate as a systemic work practitioner.
“Dear Valérie, I just wanted to let you know that we actually find it a pity that it is over. It was so beautiful, and it was my journey too. You changed our lives, and you did so much for us. No money in the world can pay for what you did. So know that this is an enormous strength. Know that you are allowed to come out with it, that you are allowed to have that voice, because you can be so proud of what you can achieve with people.”
Translated from Dutch.
This is for you if
- family patterns keep triggering or confronting you;
- you want to facilitate constellations with depth and care;
- you are ready to look at your own family system first;
- you can travel to Malaga for the practice week.
This may not be the right moment if
- you are looking for a quick fix;
- you prefer to learn only online;
- a brother or sister of yours follows this course in the same year.
Brothers and sisters do not follow this course in the same year. In the year Valérie trained, someone older in her own family system was training in systemic work too. In her experience, the youngest feels everything double. A single constellation in the same period as your brother or sister is fine. A full training, constellation after constellation, is not.
Two ways to join.
Take Systemic Work on its own, or follow all four courses as one practitioner year at a lower combined price.
Systemic Work
Wave 1 · Launch price, until 31 October
Online course with lifetime access, and the practice week of 15 to 19 November 2027 in Malaga.
EnrolThe Practitioner Year
Wave 1 · Launch price, until 31 October
All four courses and all four practice weeks in 2027. You save €1.850 compared to four separate courses.
View the full yearThe price rises in three waves
Launch price
Until 31 October
€2.950 per course
€9.950 full year
Full payment upfront
Founding price
1 to 30 November
€3.150 per course
€10.800 full year
Pay in full or in 3 instalments
Early price
1 to 31 December
€3.550 per course
€12.150 full year
Pay in full or in 3 instalments
From 1 November: €3.150 per course, €10.800 for the full year.
The launch price applies to full payment upfront. Payment in three instalments is possible from 1 November.
Ready to make peace with where you come from?
The course opens online on 6 September 2027. The practice week takes place from 15 to 19 November in Malaga, Spain.